What are the two most common types of legal custodies in Texas?
The Texas Family Code identifies two types of custody:
Joint Managing Conservatorship Sole Managing Conservatorship
If the parents are Joint Managing Conservators, that means they will have right to make decisions concerning the child’s medical decisions, religion, education, and how they are disciplined. In most cases, Joint Managing Conservatorship is assumed by Texas courts to be the best arrangement for divorcing parents.
If one parent is a Sole Managing Conservator, he or she will have more exclusive rights to make decisions concerning the child’s medical needs, religion, education and how the child is disciplined.
How is the physical custody (Visitation) of a child divided?
The physical custody of the child is most often governed or based on the Texas Standard Possession order. The main effect of this possession order is that it provides weekend visitation for the parent with whom the child does not regularly reside. These weekends are typically the first, third, and fifth weekend of the month.
Parties are allowed to agree on how the physical custody of the child shall be divided and the Texas Standard Possession order is only considered when the parents can not work together and agree on a visitation plan.
Is a Custody decision permanent or can it be modified?
There are no permanent decisions regarding custody arrangements in Texas. People and their circumstances change. The court provides a mechanism for you to petition the court to make changes to your custody and visitation rights. In Dallas and Collin counties, this is known as Motion to Modify Parent-Child Relationship.
Does my child get to decide who they want to live with?
In Texas, your child does not get the final say in where they live, but depending on the circumstances,
their preference is considered. If the child is 12 years old or over, they will be allowed to give the court their opinion regarding which parent they would rather live with. Often this is done by the child meeting privately with the Judge in Chambers.
Regardless of what a child has to say about their preferences, a judge may rule in favor of the opposite party. Sometimes a judge will decide that the thoughts and wishes of a child mixed up in a Child Custody battle are actually not going to be in the child’s best interests. Judges also know that children may not be mature enough to properly evaluate which household is in their best interest. Kids can be kids and sometimes they prefer to live with the parent who has less “rules” or does not make them do chores. The maturity of the child is a big factor for the Judge to evaluate. Remember, deciding where the child should live is more about what is in the best interest of the child and less about what the child wants.
For parents of children under the age of 12, their options are not as concrete and the court has more discretion on whether to consider the child’s wishes. To get the Judge to consider these children’s preference, a couple of options exist including:
Ask the Judge to interview the child. When the child is under 12 years old, there is no absolute right for the child to give his or her preference. Ask the Judge to assign or approve of a counselor or amicus attorney to interview the child to get the child’s preference. What happens if my spouse wants to relocate geographically with my child after a divorce?
If you are concerned that your spouse may want to relocate half way across the world after gaining Child Custody and that you will then not be able to see your child for years on end, it is essential that you speak up before any Divorce or Child Custody orders are signed.
In Texas, the key is to get a residency restriction clause in your Final Decree of Divorce or Child Custody Order (commonly known as Order in Suit Affecting Parent Child Relationship). In Dallas it is common practice that upon one parent’s request the parent that establishes the residency of the child is required to live in either the county of jurisdiction and any county contiguous to the county of jurisdiction. To illustrate, consider the following example:
Mom and Dad live in Dallas at the time they file their divorce. Mom wants to move to New Jersey and take the children. Dad requests that a domicile restriction clause be included in the Final Decree of Divorce ordering that Mom may only reside in a certain county. The Court agrees with Dad. The result is that Mom will not be able to move to New Jersey. If she does, she could forfeit her right to establish the residence of the children. Mom is permitted to continue to live in Dallas and may move anywhere else within Dallas or to any other county that touches Dallas county on the map. These counties include Collin, Tarrant, Denton, Ellis, Kaufman and Rockwall.
The important thing you must do is get the domicile restriction into the Child Custody or Divorce order, or there will be little that the court can do.
My partner was violent…how does this affect Child Custody and Child Visitation decisions in court?
Unfortunately, domestic violence is a common reason for a failed marriage. Warren & Migliaccio has dealt with many cases where the reason for filing for a divorce stems from the fact that at least one of the spouses has been physically or emotionally abusive towards the other.
Naturally, to put your mind at rest, domestic violence of any kind is a very serious factor that the courts in Dallas and Collin counties consider when determining the outcome of a legal matter involving Child Custody and Child Visitation rights. Despite what the child says (even if they are 12 years old or older), the law always needs to act in the best interest of that child. Knowingly placing them in an abusive environment would not be acting in a child’s best interests from any angle.
Evidence of domestic violence in a Child Custody battle can either work heavily in your favor or heavily against you. If you are a victim of domestic abuse or falsely accused of committing domestic violence, it is imperative that you get immediate assistance from a competent attorney.
Victims of family violence have many legal options available to them and their children including protective orders and supervised visitation.
Do I have to be married to file for Child Custody or to request better Child Visitation rights?
The courts in Dallas and Collin provide a mechanism to either establish the parent-child relationship or modify an existing order concerning the parent child relationship regardless of whether you are married or were ever married to the other parent.
It is known as Suit Affecting Parent Child Relationship (SAPCR). After filing a petition with the court, you can address all custody and visitation relating to the child including, but not limited to the following:
Establish the Parent-Child Relationship. Often in situations when parents are not married, and the father has not signed an Acknowledgement of Paternity form, the father will have no custody or visitation rights. In this situation, either parent may file a SAPCR petition to establish the father as legal parent of the child. Address all custody issues including which parent makes life decisions for the child or whether they share the responsibility. Establish a visitation schedule so that both parents have an appropriate amount of access to the child based on the parent’s situation. Establish and order one parent (typically the non-custodial parent) to pay child support for the benefit of the child. Free Case Evaluation with Dallas attorney committed to obtaining results for you.
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Child Visitation in Texas
At the Law firm of Warren & Migliaccio, LLP, in Garland, Texas, Gary Warren and Christopher Migliaccio believe in providing each client with practical answers to their legal questions regarding the physical custody rights of their children. We understand how important having stable schedule with your children is and we are here to help you set one.
How does visitation (Physical Custody) get divided between the parents?
If left up to the parents, they can usually arrange and share visitation of the children in any manner that they can agree. This is very often the ideal arrangement for both parents because they choose how to handle the situation, instead of leaving it up to the judge.
If visitation can not be agreed to by the parents, you can expect the judge’s order to follow the Standard Possession Order in most situations where the child is over the age of 3. In certain circumstances, judges will deviate or not follow the Standard Visitation Schedule for good cause and/or if the Judge feels it is in the best interest of the child.
Texas Standard Possession Order Some things you should know
The Standard Possession Order details how the child’s time will be divided between the parents. There are two different categories of the Standard Possession order depending on where the two parents live.
Below are some key points of interest describing the access and visitation a non-custodial parent would receive under the Standard Possession Order. The non-custodial parent is the parent with whom the child does not live.
When parents live within 100 miles of each other
The non-custodial paren
t will have visitation of the child on: : beginning at 6:00pm on the first, third, and fifth Friday of each month and ending at 6:00pm on that Sunday. Weekends Thursdays : beginning at 6 p.m., or when the child is released from school, and ending at 8 p.m. Spring Break : in even numbered years (example: 2010, 2012, 2014, and etc.) when the child is released from school and ending at 6 p.m. the day before the child is due to return to school. : for thirty (30) days under the condition that they are exercised in no more than two separate periods of at least seven consecutive days. Summer Vacation in even-numbered years starting at 6 p.m. the day the child is released for Christmas Vacation and concluding on December 26 at 12 p.m. Christmas Vacation: in odd-numbered yearsstarting December 26 at 12 p.m. and ending at 6 p.m. on the day before school resumes. Christmas Vacation: in odd-numbered years starting at 6 p.m. the day the child is released from school for Thanksgiving Vacation and concluding on the Sunday following Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving Vacation: beginning at 6 p.m. the day of the child’s birthday and ending at 8 p.m. the day of the child’s birthday. Child’s Birthday: Depends Mother’s Day/ Father’s Day Weekend: The mother of the child shall have the child during Mother’s Day Weekend starting at 6 p.m. the Friday before Mother’s Day and ending at 6 p.m. on Mother’s Day. Mother’s day: : The father of the child shall have the child during Father’s Day Weekend starting at 6 p.m. the Friday before Father’s Day and ending at 6 p.m. on Father’s Day. Father’s day
When the parents live more than 100 miles apart
Non-Custodial Parent’s visitation is adjusted with the two following points:
Summer Vacation: parent gets 42 days during the summer (as compared to 30 days) Weekends: is allowed to choose between following the Standard first, third, and fifth weekend, or the election of any one weekend each month. (with proper notice) When the child is three (3) years of age or younger
It depends on the Judge. Often, the Standard Possession Order is not applied to children 3 years of age and younger. The amount of visitation to the Non-Custodial Parent can vary depending on the needs of the child and the ability of the parents to handle those needs.
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